First off, having a small list doesn't make you 'guilty' ... and I'm sorry if that's a message you pulled from my 'rant'. Just one less qualifier (reciprocation) in your immediate arsenal.
One problem I have noticed over time is that many of the newbies in this forum appear rushed ... and that may give off a negative vibe to potential partners. They jump head first into wanting potential partners to promote for them without doing much pre qualifying of themselves or their product brand.
Take a look at partners like Charles Kirkland and Chris Douthit ... I can almost guarantee you that they've made multiple positive connections since being on this forum simply due to being active and helpful ... and they are not alone.
Post your profile and current JV offer in the appropriate category (if you have not, already), start posting specific questions, reply when you can ... take your time, and do things right. I'm sure you'll do just fine.