I am a huge fan of attending events and have been for the last 10 years +. My selection criteria for the events I do attend has been much more focused than previously because I've learned to focus on those opportunities that will grow my business and expand my circles of influence. I have nothing against attending multi-presenter events where products /coaching, etc...are pitched. What I advise my clients, coaching, and mastermind members to do is to prepare ahead of time, be strategic, and really know yourself and your business prior to attending! In that way, you can determine...what will grow their business while allowing them to maintain focus, not re-direct them toward the next "shiny object". The networking opportunities and real friendship are there if you take the time to be sincere, genuine, and give first.