I just finished reading YET another report about, "how all Guru's suck, how I wasted thousands of dollars on
TONS products that just didn't work for me, blah blah, blah". (The Genie has another thread about this on here)
... so I am going to give some input about how I see things from an ATTITUDE perspective. Your attitude in this
business determines EVERYTHING about your success and if you go into it with a poor attitude, you ARE going to
have poor results. I can guarantee you that the ONLY people buying those types of person's products (which they
will probably whine and complain about later on) have the EXACT same mentality he does. I can also guarantee you
it's an attitude destined to failure, because he's putting the failure mindset out there. And what I mean by that
is, he's saying, "IF you buy all their products, you're going to FAIL, IF you don't listen to me, you're going to
FAIL!" Think about that! Is that the kind of attitude you want to get from someone whom is supposed to be teaching
you HOW TO SUCCEED?
I'm not saying EVERY Guru's product out there is going to work for you, I'm also not telling you that you should
listen to what EVERY Guru tells you to do, because NOT all products out there WILL work for you and NOT every guru
is going to be able to reach you. I have my own set of Guru's that I WILL buy products from, but not every single
one of them. And there are reasons behind that, their attitude set off something in MY attitude to either be drawn or
not drawn to that product. I really liked the concept of the product, I LEARNED something from it, I applied it to
my business and it worked or it can be just the opposite, but I'm not going to whine and cry about it, if it doesn't
work for me. What I will do however, is see if someone else on my Guru list has a similar product and see if that
one might work for me. This is kind of like personal relationships, some people you click with, some people you
don't, some teachers you can learn from and some you just can't. It's not their fault, it's just chemistry make
up, so before you get ranty about wasting $1,000's of dollars on their products, take a step back and ask yourself,
is it me? Does my attitude suck? Or is it possibly I just can't learn from this person?
Throughout my years, I have had many personality conflicts with people (it's human nature) in business, in relationships,
all kinds of different area's, I also had a lot of issues on my plate, I had a tough childhood, I had a crappy
marriage, I was stressed out about money issues, you name it. Needless to say I was a very angry person, I would
always go into things thinking they were going to flop (my ex husband was drilling that into my head, which wasn't
helping) and well things would flop! So I took action, got a divorce, started dealing with my resentment issues,
meditating and learning how to be grateful for what I had, instead of what I didn't have. I also removed myself
from people that were constantly negative (hey it's okay to be ranty sometimes, but not all the time) and when I
dove back into business, things changed HUGELY for me. And the reason why I am sharing this with you, is because
sometimes you have to look inward and see IF it's really them or really you.
I can tell you without 100% certainty, that if you spend money on a product and are grumbling about having to spend
X amount of dollars to get it, you're probably NOT going to see that product's full potential, you WILL have
resentment issues about it and 9 times out of ten, it's not going to work for you the way you expect it to. With
that said, do NOT spend your last few dollars on something hoping for a miracle to make you a TON of money in
this industry. Do NOT spend that money if you expect it to be your last saving grace, because it's NOT going to
be, WAIT until you have the right mindset and then buy it. IF you're spending your last few bucks going to a
conference don't do it, because once again, I will tell you right now, you will NOT get as much as you think you
are going to get from it. In the back of your mind you WILL be saying, "holy crap, I spent this much money coming
to this damn thing and it wasn't what I expected." By the way, that will either be a good holy crap or a bad one!
All in all, at the end of the day, do NOT do anything in this business, IF you can't do it with a good attitude
and KNOW that it's going to be the BEST thing for you. KNOW that it will change your life for the better, KNOW
it will give you and your family a better life, KNOW it will give you financial freedom, KNOW that everything
you do WILL BE SUCCESSFUL! And if you don't know that and don't feel it, DON'T DO IT! This business is not for
everyone, no matter how great they might think they are at it. They can hire whomever they want to create their
products, come up with half rated products designed by the best people, BUT their attitude will always shine
through somewhere and so will yours and it will reflect on your business. So before you blame one of the GURU's
about your flops and failures in this industry, check yourself at the door, because it might not be them, it
might be YOUR ATTITUDE!