Thank you for all the answers. At least now I know what you mean by the lists and as far as being responsive when I pitch my mlm opps etc I have a 10% and as high as 17% response and purchase rate. I do not bug them too often except when I am getting into a new downline etc.

I have decided to do my own design on the software so I will not need any help with that. As far as affiliate software etc I am going to test out paydotcom for the mean time and see if it works for me.