Thanks for all of the replies guys!

The trust issue is a small one to me. The biggest issue is that while these will be buyers, I won't have access to them. My product is going into his order process, so there is no optin to my list. I know this will still mean dollars in my pocket, but more important to me is getting a new customer, which I won't. Plus my autoresponder sequence is setup to reduce returns, so without that, I fear the refund rate will be higher than it should be.

But you're right, Valeriu, that really shouldn't be a primary concern. It doesn't cost me a dime and if it performs well, I've got a great partner for a long time to come, so I'm calling this resolved. Lost focus on the big picture there.

Shaun